B – Bondage and Discipline
D – Domination & Submission
S – Sadism (& Masochism)
M – Masochism
BDSM is not about sex.
BDSM is NOT prostitution.
BDSM is NOT illegal.
BDSM is LEGAL.
BDSM is about CONTROL.
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I WILL NOT FUCK YOU, BUT I WILL MIND-FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU.
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Some have found a mind-fuck to be a deeper, more intense penetration— I’ll let you be the judge of that.
I wouldn't be doing this (Professional Domination) if I didn't like the hurt. I grow from the hurt— I learn from the hurt— pain turns Me on (the good pain, of course). BDSM is My happy place. I practice BDSM in My personal life, as well— I'm a Lifestyle Domme.
BDSM is NOT abuse. BDSM is consensual and safe "play" that involves continuous communication or check-ins between the Dominant and submissive. A MAJOR difference between BDSM and abuse is that abuse is NOT consensual whatsoever and typically, there is NO option for the victim to have any sort of control over the abusive situation— meaning, the abuser will NOT stop if the victim screams out to his/her abuser, “Stop!”
Being adequately educated and correctly informed about BDSM, BDSM terminology and the BDSM lifestyle is highly important because KNOWLEDGE IS POWER AND EXPERIENCE IS POWERFUL. If you practice the BDSM lifestyle, you must know your human rights, and NON-CONSENSUAL abuse is not tolerated in the BDSM community. Additionally, the more you know about BDSM, the higher quality your BDSM lifestyle will be.
A key component to living an exquisite BDSM lifestyle is to always remain teachable and NEVER stop learning. As a Dominant, I will NEVER stop learning— to stop learning is to DIE and FUCK DYING! I’ve got a lot of living to do!
If you are a beginner submissive, I want you to enjoy exploring your kinky side. The BDSM lifestyle is all about letting yourself be free and FUCK conformity.
I commend you for coming to Me— you are a BRAVE soul. You are courageous and curious— what a wonderful and beautiful combination.
DISCIPLINE
The type of discipline I administer is different for each submissive and contingent on a variety of factors.
First and foremost I consider My submissive's needs and the content/theme/mood of the session.
First and foremost I consider My submissive's needs and the content/theme/mood of the session.
1. MENTAL DISCIPLINE
Examples could include:
• Verbal— ie: Verbally correcting your behavior
• Emotional— ie: Obedience/Obeying My commands
• Strict Rules/Structured Environment
• Reviewing your behavior— (current and/or past) Determine if you've caused harm against others.
• Willingness— ie: The ability to follow instructions CORRECTLY is VERY IMPORTANT to Me. This is a crucial skill you MUST master as it is imperative to your growth as a good, obedient submissive.
• Perseverance
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1. PHYSICAL DISCIPLINE
Examples could include:
• Strict Rules— ie: Physically correcting your posture
• Impact Play— ie: Spanking/whipping
• Denial of a favorite kink/fetish
• Bondage
• Pain
• Endurance
Mental and Physical Discipline can be used together or separately upon administration.
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BONDAGE
What can I say?— I LOVE tying people the fuck up! From leather handcuffs and elaborate hog-ties— to being strapped down with rope restraints, you'll love the way I make you feel when you're under My TOTAL CONTROL— COMPLETELY VULNERABLE and HELPLESS.
DO I NEED TO BRING ANYTHING SPECIAL TO MY BDSM SESSION?
1. You MUST bring your donation in a white, unsealed envelope. Please follow the DONATION INSTRUCTIONS concerning the placement and delivery of the envelope upon your arrival.
DONATION INSTRUCTIONS: Upon arrival for your Session, place your DONATION on a table in clear view, so I can review the contents prior to the start of your Session.
2. OPTIONAL: Bring a bottle of water, a bath towel, and a change of clothes. I will have a cold water bottle and fresh towel for you.
3. You need to bring an obedient attitude, a willingness to grow, the desire to always remain teachable, and your humble eagerness to serve Me as My loyal submissive.
4. You need to have a clean body, wear clean clothes (no stains), and have fresh breath.
5. You will need to read over the PROTOCOL AND POLICIES page. I will expect you to correctly address Me in a respectful manner.
6. You MUST take your BDSM sessions seriously. If you treat your session like a joke— you are disrespecting Me and yourself— let's not go down that path. Most importantly, do NOT waste My time.