ADHERING TO MY BOOKING PROCESS
I require a 24-48-hour notice for bookings.
1. To secure your opportunity to Session with Me, it's important that you follow My Booking Process (STEP 1, STEP 2, STEP 3) correctly.
2. If you do not follow My Booking Process correctly, you could risk your opportunity to Session with Me.
SESSION PROTOCOL
I require a 24-48-hour notice for bookings.
1. I am an Independent Professional Swedish Dominatrix, Energy Healer,  Lightworker, and Medium.
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But why is being an Independent Professional Dominatrix a good thing? (you might ask...)
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I will be the ONLY one who you will be interacting with at The Den of Indomitus. I will be the ONLY one who will greet you at the door.
As an Independent Professional Dominatrix, I have the luxury of accessing The Den's beautiful facility for My private BDSM Sessions—with no strings attached— just pure pleasure and ultimate bliss.

2. Arrive to your Session on-time. If you are running late, please text Me to let Me know that you are on your way.

3. Upon arrival for your Session, please have your donation ready in an unsealed white envelope. Please ensure that the TOTAL SESSION AMOUNT DUE is inside the envelope. Place your donation on a table in a location that's clearly visible, so I can review the contents prior to the start of your Session.

4. Please present yourself with a pleasant, respectful attitude.

5. Arrive to your Session freshly showered and wearing clean clothes.

6. My Protocol for OUTCALL Sessions is listed here.

7. You have read and agree to adhere to My SESSION PROTOCOL AND POLICIES.
session preparations
IF YOUR SESSION INCLUDES STRAP-ON PLAY, PLEASE PROPERLY PREPARE YOUR BODY PRIOR YOUR SESSION:
1. PRIOR your session— Please properly and thoroughly prepare your body for strap-on play.
2. To ensure that we don’t see any brown downtown during strap-on play, please thoroughly clean yourself by using a water enema.
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Disclaimer: You must clean yourself PRIOR your session. If you do not properly prepare for strap-on play and too much brown starts to surface during our strap-on session, I will have to discontinue our strap-on play immediately for that particular session.
MY BOOKING PROCESS
HOW TO REQUEST A SESSION
FILL OUT THE BOOKING FORM APPLICATION
To request a session, you must fill out the BOOKING FORM APPLICATION. Step 1 is mandatory.
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Once you have completed the BOOKING FORM APPLICATION I'll be able to customize your BDSM session according to your liking, so you'll have the most satisfying and memorable experience EVER.
I will review your
booking form APPLICATION
1. I will review your BOOKING FORM APPLICATION answers within 24 - 48 hours (or less) of receipt.

2. We will go over the PACKAGE you chose and discuss any additional details for your session.

3. Once we have agreed on a date and time for your Session, I will email you the SESSION QUOTE.

4. You must approve the SESSION QUOTE to move forward with the Booking Process. If everything looks good on the SESSION QUOTE and you approve the TOTAL SESSION AMOUNT DUE, you will reply back to Me,
"YES, I CONFIRM."
If you have chosen an INCALL Session, I will check on session space availability at the Den of Indomitus for your requested date(s) and time(s).

If we have agreed on an OUTCALL Session, I will be traveling to your location for your desired Session.
YOU MUST APPROVE
THE SESSION QUOTE
TO MOVE FORWARD WITH THE BOOKING PROCESS
PART 1:
You must approve the SESSION QUOTE to move forward with the Booking Process.
If everything looks good on the SESSION QUOTE and you approve the TOTAL SESSION AMOUNT DUE, you will reply back to Me,
"YES, I CONFIRM."
If you have chosen an INCALL Session, I will check on session space availability at the Den of Indomitus for your requested date(s) and time(s).

If we have agreed on an OUTCALL Session, I will be traveling to your location for your desired Session.

PART 2:
Once you have approved the SESSION QUOTE (and you have given Me written consent of your approval "YES, I CONFIRM"), I will officially book your session and send you a text/email confirmation. Additionally, your Session text/email confirmation will include:
▪️ SPECIAL SESSION INSTRUCTIONS
▪️ LOCATION INSTRUCTIONS
▪️ OTHER PERTINENT INFORMATION RELATED TO YOUR SESSION
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CONGRATULATIONS!
Your session IS NOW officially booked!
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1 or 2 days before your SESSION, I will send you a text or email reminder of your upcoming SESSION.

You will NOT receive a same-day text reminder, so do not expect one. I will be there at your session as scheduled unless I notify you otherwise.

If you have scheduled an INCALL Session, you can find the address for the Den of Indomitus on My BUSINESS HOURS + LOCATION page.
how to address a Mistress
You are always to be respectful and polite when speaking and/or interacting with Me, Mistress Cat Noir. You will address Me as follows:

▪️ Mistress Cat Noir
▪️ Goddess Cat
▪️ Goddess
▪️ My Queen
▪️ Mistress
▪️ Mistress Cat
expected disposition
Mistakes happen, but there are consequences for misdeeds. I am not a tyrant; however, I do not like being disappointed.
Praise is awarded to those who earn it.
Be kind. Don't be a dick.
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I am a kind Mistress, but never misconstrue my kindness as a weakness because it will not end in your favor.
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It is your duty as My submissive to ALWAYS ensure that I am pleased with your actions and attitude.
DONATION INSTRUCTIONS
Upon arrival for your Session, please have your donation ready in an unsealed white envelope. Please ensure that the TOTAL SESSION AMOUNT DUE is inside the envelope.

Place your donation on a table in a location that's clearly visible, so I can review the contents prior to the start of your Session.
PRIVACY & CONFIDENTIALITY POLICY
What you do with your life is your business. I do not ask for intricate details of My Clients' lives. Rest assured, the time you spend with Me and the fantasies that unfold will stay 100% confidential. I am respectful of your privacy and expect the same in return.
HARD LIMITS
NO SEX POLICY: Let Me be 100% clear— I do not blur the lines between sex and Session play. I have ZERO interest in participating in any illegal or sexual activities during a session with a Client. There is no penile/vaginal penetration between the Mistress and Client during BDSM sessions.

NO DINNER. NO DRINKS: This is not a dating service. I will not go out to dinner with you nor will I have drinks with you, so don't even ask.

NO SOUNDING:  I do not offer any kind of sounding sessions.

NO SMOKING: I do not smoke. No smoking (of any kind) or vaping is permitted during your Session.

D/D FREE: I am drug and disease-free— I expect you to be, too.

NO ALCOHOL OR DRUGS: No alcohol or recreational/illegal drugs are permitted during your Session.
PLEASE NOTE: If you arrive at your session intoxicated or become unnaturally altered/impaired during your session, I reserve the right to cancel your session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session. In other words, if you make the choice to get fucked up upon arrival or during your session, then you pay a 100% cancellation fee.
RESPECT & CONDUCT/MISCONDUCT POLICY
Respect Me, and I respect you. If a Client's misconduct progresses to the level of abuse (ie: physical, emotional, or verbal), I reserve the right to stop the session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session. In other words, if you act like a dick, then you pay a 100% cancellation fee.
My RESPECT & CONDUCT/MISCONDUCT POLICY is in effect PRIOR to the start of your session, as well. If I feel unsafe in any way— even if your session has not started, I reserve the right to walk away from the session, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me. Let's not dip our toes in that pool of disrespect— you came to Me to have fun, so let's stick to that plan.
SANITATION & SAFETY POLICY
Cleanliness is next to Godliness. All Session/play equipment and toys are fully sanitized before and after your session. If you would like to bring any of your own BDSM props to your session, please email Me at mistresscatnoir@gmail.com within 24 hours of your scheduled session, and tell Me, in detail, what props you'd like to bring to your session. If I foresee your "pleasure toy" being an issue, I will let you know before your session.
PLEASE NOTE: If you DO bring a personal BDSM prop to your session, and you forget to take it home with you after your BDSM session, I, Mistress Cat Noir, am not responsible for the loss of your item nor do I have to replace it. You, My sweet sub, must keep track of your shit at all times— that is on you and 100% your responsibility. Just a reminder to wear your big girl panties at all times, My love!
NO PHOTO, VIDEO,
OR RECORDING POLICY
This policy is in place to protect My Clients' and My company's privacy, enhance confidentiality, and ensure security. UNLESS SPECIFICALLY REQUESTED FOR YOUR SESSION, photography, video, or audio recording (of any kind) is not permitted during, before, or after your Session.
Additionally, please refrain from initiating photography, video, or audio recording (of any kind) that includes any part of your session, yourself, Me (Mistress Cat Noir), or My personal property (ie: My car) until I have completely left the location of your Session.
GOOD HYGIENE
Good hygiene is expected. I smell divinely delicious and expect you to smell good, too. Please have good breath during your Session as well— pop a breath mint if need be.
I PROVIDE AN EMOTIONALLY SAFE ENVIRONMENT
I provide an emotionally safe environment, so you can feel safe and comfortable during the exploration of your kinks, naughty fetishes, dark desires, and fantasies.
LIABILITY DISCLAIMER
When you book a session with Me, you accept full responsibility for your actions and the risks associated with a Session. I am not liable or responsible for any negative repercussions you may experience that result from a Session with Me.
As Owner of My self-titled business Mistress Cat Noir, I, Mistress Cat Noir, am not to be held responsible for any damages, injuries, or losses that occur during your usage/experience of My website (www.mistresscatnoir.com), apps, products, or services.
FIREARMS & WEAPONS POLICY
You, the Client, are not allowed to bring firearms/guns, knives, or deadly weapons (of any kind) into your Session. If applicable, BDSM play involving weapons (of any kind) will be controlled and handled by Me, Mistress Cat Noir. I take all precautionary measures to ensure your safety.
CANCELLATION POLICY
MISCONDUCT: If a Client's misconduct progresses to the level of abuse (ie: physical, emotional, or verbal), I reserve the right to stop the session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session.
If I feel unsafe in any way— even if your session has not started, I reserve the right to walk away from the session, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me.


NO ALCOHOL OR DRUGS: If you make the choice to get fucked up upon arrival or during your Session, then you pay a 100% cancellation fee. Under these circumstances, 100% cancellation fee means that I reserve the right to stop the session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session. 


15-MINUTE RULE: If you are running late for your session, I will wait a maximum of 15 minutes after your scheduled session time for you to show up. Once the time hits 16 minutes PAST your scheduled session time, and you have NOT shown up, your session is canceled.


CANCELING YOUR SESSION: If you need to cancel your Session, please be respectful of My time and give Me a minimum 24-hour notice of your cancellation.
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