ADHERING TO MY BOOKING PROCESS
I require a 48-hour notice for bookings.
1. To secure your opportunity to Session with Me, it's important that you follow My Booking Process correctly.
2. If you do not follow My Booking Process correctly, you could risk your opportunity to Session with Me.
SESSION PROTOCOL
I require a 48-hour notice for bookings.
1. I am an Independent Professional Swedish Dominatrix, Energy Healer, Lightworker, and Medium.
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But why is being an Independent Professional Dominatrix a good thing? (you might ask...)
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If you choose to book your Session at The Den of Indomitus, I will be the ONLY one with whom you'll interact. I will be the ONLY one who will greet you at the door.
Discreet and Safe location. The Den is fully licensed and insured.
YOU ARE SAFE WITH ME.
As an Independent Professional Dominatrix, I have the luxury of accessing The Den's beautiful facility for My private BDSM Sessions—with no strings attached— just pure pleasure and ultimate bliss.
2. Arrive to your Session on-time. If you are running late, please text Me to let Me know that you are on your way.
3. Upon arrival for your Session, please have your donation ready in an unsealed white envelope. Please ensure that the TOTAL SESSION AMOUNT DUE is inside the envelope. Place your donation on a table in a location that's clearly visible, so I can review the contents prior to the start of your Session.
4. Please present yourself with a pleasant, respectful attitude.
5. Arrive to your Session freshly showered and wearing clean clothes.
7. You have read and agree to adhere to My SESSION PROTOCOL AND POLICIES.
EXPERIENCE ULTIMATE LUXURY AT MY NEW Scottsdale & phoenix locations
session preparations
IF YOUR SESSION INCLUDES STRAP-ON PLAY OR ANAL TOY PLAY, YOU MUST PROPERLY PREPARE YOUR BODY PRIOR TO YOUR SESSION.
1. PRIOR to your Session— You must properly and thoroughly prepare your body for strap-on play AND anal toy play.
2. To ensure that we don’t see any brown downtown during strap-on play and/or anal toy play, you must thoroughly clean yourself by using a water or saline enema. That means you must initiate the water or saline enema 1 day before your Session and the day of your Session.
3. "Why do I need to use an enema prior to strap-on play?"— A water or saline enema helps flush out your large intestine to remove unwanted waste (aka: poop). Your large intestine (aka: colon) is your food's "last stop" during the digestive process— this is where your body breaks down the food you've eaten and stores the remaining elements that could not be digested— yep, it's the poop! When you have a clean colon, it makes strap-on play much more fun for everyone— and safer! And safe play is happy play!
4. READ THE INSTRUCTIONS ON YOUR ENEMA BOX— Not all enemas are created equally, so it's important to read the instructions on the box before you use the enema. Remember, I, Mistress Cat Noir, am not responsible nor liable for any mishaps that could or potentially occur with the usage of your enema— the administration of your enema is your responsibility. It is up to you to insert the enema properly. If you experience any adverse issues associated with enema usage, please contact your physician immediately.
5. "How long will it take for me to poop after I use the enema?"— Let's just say, STAY CLOSE TO THE TOILET after you use the enema. Everyone's body is different, and it really depends on if you're constipated or not. It could take you 5-minutes or 15-minutes to poop after the enema.
6. "Can I use more than 1 enema in a 24-hour period?"— No. It's not suggested to use more than 1 enema per day. You do NOT want to cause dehydration. Do not make yourself sick because if you do that, then you will not be able to do what you are preparing your body for in the first place— strap-on play. Be smart, and take care of yourself.
7. "Is it safe to use 2 enemas in a 48-hour period?"— Yes. It's OK to use 1 enema per day. Again, please listen to your body, and if you're feeling ill in any way after enema usage, please consult with your physician and seek medical attention immediately.
I require that you must initiate the water or saline enema 1 day before your Session and the day of your Session.
8. "What kind of enema do You suggest, Mistress Cat Noir?"— I suggest the Fleet enema kit. You can purchase it for under $7 at CVS.
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Disclaimer: You must clean yourself PRIOR to your session. That means you must initiate the water or saline enema 1 day before and the day of your Session. If you do not properly prepare for strap-on play and too much brown starts to surface during our strap-on session, I will have to discontinue our strap-on play immediately for that particular session.
Additionally, if your butt smells like rotten eggs, and it's clearly not clean, I can assure you that strap-on play nor anal toy play will not commence during your Session. YES, I WILL KNOW IF YOU HAVE A DIRTY BUTT SOON ENOUGH. AND YES, I WILL LET YOU KNOW IF YOUR BUTT SMELLS. So, clean your butt, loves.
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strap-on play
& anal toy play
& anal toy play
WHAT TO EXPECT— LET'S TAKE A DEEPER DIVE INSIDE THESE KINKS
Curious about strap-on play? You should be— because it's fucking awesome.
Newbies and "the experienced" are all welcome to enjoy strap-on play and anal toy play.
TO BE CLEAR— Strap-on play/anal play is NOT anal sex. Anal play is simply anal play with anal toys. There is NO ANAL SEX involved when you choose these kinks— let Me be crystal fucking clear about this.
If you choose anal play with anal toys as one of your Session requests, you’ll have a variety of stimulating, SUPER EXCITING anal toys to choose from come your Session Day— vibrating plugs, thrusting plugs…oh My!
For safety and sanitary purposes, I always use condoms on My strap-on and anal toys. My strap-on and anal toys are properly sanitized and lubricated— before and after your Session.
If you have any latex allergies, strap-on/anal play cannot commence as I only use latex condoms on My strap-on and anal toys.
It is mandatory that you properly and thoroughly clean yourself to prepare your body for anal play BEFORE you arrive to your Session.
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STRAP-ON DETAILS— LOOKS AND feels like "the real thing"
Made of 100% Platinum silicone, Vixen Creations really nailed it with their VixSkin strap-on. Yes, VixSkin is the brand of My strap-on. I only use the best of the best for My strap-on play Sessions.
Elevate your kink play with Vixen Creations— a unique, top-leading luxury kink toy brand, specializing in high-quality 100% Platinum silicone, body-safe kink toys and products.
Made of 100% Platinum silicone, you’ll love the realistic feeling of My strap-on. My strap-on is velvety soft to-the-touch soft, looks and FEELS LIKE THE REAL THING, the perfect size (not huge— girth and length are average size), warms and retains your body heat— how cool is that!
High-quality Session play, high-quality kink products, high-quality fun— YOU'LL BE BEGGING ME FOR MORE.
The BOOKING PROCESS
HOW TO REQUEST A SESSION
FILL OUT THE BOOKING FORM APPLICATION.
This step is mandatory.
I will review your
booking form APPLICATION ANSWERS.
booking form APPLICATION ANSWERS.
YOU'LL BE SENT A SECURE SESSION QUOTE LINK.
YOU MUST APPROVE THE SESSION QUOTE TO MOVE FORWARD WITH THE BOOKING PROCESS.
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CONGRATULATIONS!
Your session IS NOW officially booked!
Your session IS NOW officially booked!
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NO SAME-DAY REMINDER TEXT/EMAIL
I'LL SEND A REMINDER TEXT/EMAIL APPROXIMATELY 2 - 3 days PRIOR TO YOUR SCHEDULED SESSION DATE; HOWEVER, you will NOT receive a same-day reminder, so do not expect one. I will be there as scheduled unless I notify you otherwise.
If you have scheduled an INCALL Session, you can find the address for the Den of Indomitus on My BUSINESS HOURS + LOCATION page.
how to address a Mistress
You are always to be respectful and polite when speaking and/or interacting with Me, Mistress Cat Noir. You will address Me as follows:
▪️ Mistress Cat Noir
▪️ Mistress Cat
▪️ Mistress
▪️ Goddess Cat
▪️ Goddess
▪️ My Queen
expected disposition
Mistakes happen, but there are consequences for misdeeds. I am not a tyrant; however, I do not like being disappointed.
Praise is awarded to those who earn it.
Be kind. Don't be a dick.
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I am a kind Mistress, but never misconstrue my kindness as a weakness because it will not end in your favor.
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It is your duty as My submissive to ALWAYS ensure that I am pleased with your actions and attitude.
DONATION INSTRUCTIONS
Upon arrival for your Session, please have your donation ready in an unsealed white envelope. Please ensure that the TOTAL SESSION AMOUNT DUE is inside the envelope.
Place your donation on a table in a location that's clearly visible, so I can review the contents prior to the start of your Session.
PRIVACY & CONFIDENTIALITY POLICY
What you do with your life is your business. I do not ask for intricate details of My Clients' lives. Rest assured, the time you spend with Me and the fantasies that unfold will stay 100% confidential. I am respectful of your privacy and expect the same in return.
HARD LIMITS
NO SEX POLICY: Let Me be 100% clear— I do not blur the lines between sex and Session play. I have ZERO interest in participating in any illegal or sexual activities during a session with a Client. There is no penile/vaginal penetration between the Mistress and Client during Session.
NO DINNER. NO DRINKS: This is not a dating service. I will not go out to dinner with you nor will I have drinks with you, so don't even ask.
NO SOUNDING: I do not offer any kind of sounding sessions.
NO SMOKING: I do not smoke. No smoking (of any kind) or vaping is permitted during your Session.
D/D FREE: I am drug and disease-free— I expect you to be, too.
NO ALCOHOL OR DRUGS: No alcohol or recreational/illegal drugs are permitted during your Session.
PLEASE NOTE: If you arrive at your session intoxicated or become unnaturally altered/impaired during your session, I reserve the right to cancel your session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session. In other words, if you make the choice to get fucked up upon arrival or during your session, then you pay a 100% cancellation fee.
RESPECT & CONDUCT/MISCONDUCT POLICY
Respect Me, and I respect you. If a Client's misconduct progresses to the level of abuse (ie: physical, emotional, or verbal), I reserve the right to stop the session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session. In other words, if you act like a dick, then you pay a 100% cancellation fee.
My RESPECT & CONDUCT/MISCONDUCT POLICY is in effect PRIOR to the start of your session, as well. If I feel unsafe in any way— even if your session has not started, I reserve the right to walk away from the session, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me. Let's not dip our toes in that pool of disrespect— you came to Me to have fun, so let's stick to that plan.
SANITATION & SAFETY POLICY
Cleanliness is next to Godliness. All Session/play equipment and toys are fully sanitized before and after your session. If you would like to bring any of your own BDSM props to your session, please email Me at catnoirmasterhealer@gmail.com within 24 hours of your scheduled session, and tell Me, in detail, what props you'd like to bring to your session. If I foresee your "pleasure toy" being an issue, I will let you know before your session.
PLEASE NOTE: If you DO bring a personal BDSM prop to your session, and you forget to take it home with you after your BDSM session, I, Mistress Cat Noir, am not responsible for the loss of your item nor do I have to replace it. You, My sweet sub, must keep track of your shit at all times— that is on you and 100% your responsibility. Just a reminder to wear your big girl panties at all times, My love!
NO PHOTO, VIDEO,
OR RECORDING POLICY
OR RECORDING POLICY
This policy is in place to protect My Clients' and My company's privacy, enhance confidentiality, and ensure security. UNLESS SPECIFICALLY REQUESTED FOR YOUR SESSION, photography, video, or audio recording (of any kind) is not permitted during, before, or after your Session.
Additionally, please refrain from initiating photography, video, or audio recording (of any kind) that includes any part of your session, yourself, Me (Mistress Cat Noir), or My personal property (ie: My car) until I have completely left the location of your Session.
GOOD HYGIENE
Good hygiene is expected. I smell divinely delicious and expect you to smell good, too. Please have good breath during your Session as well— pop a breath mint if need be.
I PROVIDE AN EMOTIONALLY SAFE ENVIRONMENT
I provide an emotionally safe environment, so you can feel safe and comfortable during the exploration of your kinks, naughty fetishes, dark desires, and fantasies.
LIABILITY DISCLAIMER
When you book a session with Me, you accept full responsibility for your actions and the risks associated with a Session. I am not liable or responsible for any negative repercussions you may experience that result from a Session with Me.
As Owner of My self-titled businesses Mistress Cat Noir and Cat Noir Master Healer, I, Mistress Cat Noir, am not to be held responsible for any damages, injuries, or losses that occur during your usage/experience of My websites: mistresscatnoir.com and catnoirmasterhealer.com, apps/applications, products, or services.
FIREARMS & WEAPONS POLICY
You, the Client, are not allowed to bring firearms/guns, knives, or deadly weapons (of any kind) into your Session. If applicable, BDSM play involving weapons (of any kind) will be controlled and handled by Me, Mistress Cat Noir. I take all precautionary measures to ensure your safety.
CANCELLATION POLICY
MISCONDUCT: If a Client's misconduct progresses to the level of abuse (ie: physical, emotional, or verbal), I reserve the right to stop the session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session.
If I feel unsafe in any way— even if your session has not started, I reserve the right to walk away from the session, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me.
NO ALCOHOL OR DRUGS: If you make the choice to get fucked up upon arrival or during your Session, then you pay a 100% cancellation fee. Under these circumstances, 100% cancellation fee means that I reserve the right to stop the session immediately, and 100% of your session cost will be kept by Me no matter the amount of time remaining from your session.
15-MINUTE RULE: If you are running late for your session, I will wait a maximum of 15 minutes after your scheduled session time for you to show up. Once the time hits 16 minutes PAST your scheduled session time, and you have NOT shown up, your session is canceled.
SESSION CANCELLATION: Cancellation Policy is contingent on whether your Session requires a security deposit or full payment prior to your Session. Regardless, pineapple does NOT belong on pizza.